It's Okay To Not Be Okay

The beautiful truth is that we are all a little broken, and that's okay. It's okay to not be okay. We all struggle in our own ways. Some days are good, and others are bad but it is important to remember that you WILL get through it. It's okay to cry, it's okay to break down and feel like everything around you is falling apart. But just know that it will get better, eventually. Life will go on, and this dead end will lead you to where you're supposed to be. We should all be allowed to fall apart sometimes, so that we can find ourselves all over again. Not being strong all of the time will make you, not break you. We all know that it's impossible to constantly stay positive, but you should try your best. One piece of advice that I have is to always be there for anyone that needs it. It breaks my heart to see someone going through something alone. Be there for the people you care about, and don't be scared to talk to others about your problems. We should all lean on each other in our times of weakness. I know that some people like to keep things to themselves, and if that's you then focus on the things you love. Focus on your goals, hobbies, career, family or friends and that will take your mind to a happier place. We all go through loss, whether it's a breakup, friendship, or loss of a loved one. Loss is the hardest thing to go through because it makes you feel empty. I know the transformation is painful, but you're not falling apart, you're falling into something different. We aren't obligated to be perfectly fine all of the time. Feel what you feel but don't let it control your life. We all have our demons, but I promise that you will get through it, and come out stronger than ever. You are strong, you are beautiful, and this world wouldn't be the same without you. Accept yourself for who you are because you are one of a kind. Stay positive, and face your fears because you're stronger than you think.

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